Ruth Ann Zaidi
April
7, 1953 - January 25, 2016
Ruth
entered eternal life on January 25, 2016 at just 62 years old. Ruth is survived
by her daughter Rana Michelle Ortega, Grandson’s Roland Dee Ortega II and
Adrian Cruz Ortega, Mother Barbara Jean LeDonne, and Sisters Betty Jean LeDonne
and Carol Lynn Arens. She was born in New Jersey to Elmer and Barbara LeDonne
on April 7, 1953. She was the eldest of three girls. She grew up in Southern
California and lived most of her life in Upland, California. She married Mumtaz
Zaidi and gave birth to her only daughter, Rana Michelle (Zaidi) Ortega. After
her divorce, she remained devoted to supporting her daughter, and later her
grandsons, in every endeavor of their lives. Ruth was well known by many as an
Angle of Grace, she was always there for those she loved in times of need. She
was a devoted daughter, a loving, supportive and caring mother and the most
amazing grandma to her grandsons who were her world. Although she only gave
birth to one daughter, and only had two grandsons, she was known by many a
“grandma”, “mom” or “friend”. She enjoyed spending time at her Church and
listening to Christian music, listening to her “oldies”, reading books, going
to the movies, spending time with her girlfriends, and most of all, taking care
of her grandsons. She would often be seen at her grandson’s Jiu Jitsu
tournaments, the football practice field, football games, school plays, and
anything that had to do with her grandsons. She never missed anything. Even in
the most recent years, as her body started to wear down, she could be seen
slowly walking with the assistance of her walker through football fields to
watch games. She also was very involved in her son-in-law, Roland Ortega’s
family, and was always at family events and was loved by the entire Ortega
clan. She was also a pseudo mother to many of her daughter’s friends. While her
death was sudden and unexpected, her lifelong dream was to enter into the
Kingdom of our Heavenly Father. That dream is now realized. While she is free,
her loved ones are bund here in her absence which will be felt until we join
her. While it may be hard for those of us left behind, comfort must come in
knowing that she is in peace and is now our Guardian Angle. Services: Memorial
will be February 11, 2016 at 2:00p.m. at the Historic St. Marks Church Building
located at 525 W. 18th Street, Upland CA. A reception will follow at 1679 Alps
Drive, Upland Ca. The family is asking that people attending the reception
bring a desert or snack to share (potluck style).
Da'Nika
Clark
It
all just seems so surreal. To lose someone near and dear hits a nerve and I
lost it the day I found out. I'm still trying to wrap my head around it. To
know that when I finally do come home I won't get to hear your voice nor see
your smile tears me up inside. Not only were you my movie buddy, you were my
Aunt... You left a very positive image of yourself that I will NEVER forget.
Kind, humble, and so caring you were. I want you to know that I miss you and I
will forever love you Auntie Ruth. May your soul rest easy baby
Alegria
and Dzamba Families purchased the Peaceful White
Lilies Basket for
the family of Ruth Ann Zaidi.
Daniel
Hanich
Ruth
you helped me with my grandmother Kathy while she was living soo much. You were
practically the only person who knew how to handle her with a smile. I remember
the two of you walking in with her groceries sweating. My grandmother would
enter the room with a frown but you would enter the room with a smile saying l
got it Aunt Kathy. I'm sure God needed your help with her which is why he
called you up. I also feel you had arrived at the forgiveness your soul needed.
I will miss our talks about life and faith. My ears were ringing in a strange
way last week. I trust that you wanted to let me know that you are still with
us. I love you so much Ruth and l expect to see you soon
Enchanted Cottage was purchased
for the family of Ruth Ann Zaidi
Danye'
Love
Although
i haven't seen or spoken to you in such a long time , your absence hit me hard.
You meant so much to me and I hope you know that . Auntie Ruth I can remember
so many memories with you , and it hurts to know that you are gone , but you
are in a better place , and I know ill see you soon. I'm going to miss you
dearly. I love you Auntie Ruth. Rest easy beautiful
Violeta
:cry::cry::cry::cry:
Michelle just know that she knew everything you wrote I am a witness to that, as
she always spoke highly of you nobody & I mean nobody will understand like
a Mother understands you have always made her very Proud
:kissing_heart::kissing_smiling_eyes::kissing_closed_eyes::heart_eyes: love
you!
Michelle
Ortega
Mom,
you finally got your wish. I need you to know that we're going to be okay. It
won't be easy, I'll miss you everyday. I envisioned you being there for Lil
Roland's wedding. Nothing will be the same without you, but we will be okay.
I'm so sorry for not hugging you more, calling you more, saying I love you
more. I'm so sorry for being impatient with you at times, for getting upset
when you didn't understand, or spoiled the boys too much. I'm sorry if I seemed
disinterested at times in things you were telling me, and I'm sorry for not
spending more time with you. I hope you know how much I love you, how much you
meant to me, and much I needed you. I keep wanting to call you. I keep
expecting you to call me, to walk through my door. I know I'll see you again
but it just seems so far away. Rest in peace. ..it will be hard, but you raised
a strong woman and I will be okay. I love you mom!
Dante'
Fields
Auntie
Ruthie I will dearly and truly miss you, love always your nephew Dante'
R'Chenda
Love
Although
I am many miles away, your absence from my family is very painful... You will
be TRULY MISSED & FOREVER LOVED. Thank you for not only being an AWESOME
BESTFRIEND/ SISTER to my mother but for also being an AMAZING AUNTIE to me
& my 3 children your UNCONDITIONAL LOVE & SUPPORT WILL BE MISSED DEARLY.
HEAVEN HAS TRULY GAINED A PHENOMENAL ANGEL. I LOVE YOU AUNTIE RUTH REST IN
PARADISE:
Deborah
Love
Ruth
I will miss you dearly, God call you home so suddenly but I have to except his
wishes I was reminded the other day that one day will be together. I love you
my friend, my sister enjoy your wings you deserve those beautiful wings. Rest
in paradise darling!
